How Often You’ve Been Captured in the Background of Someone Else’s Photo, Selfie or Group, & Have Never Known

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There’s a 42 year old monument in Georgia 

that gives instructions in 8 languages 

for how to rebuild society after an undefined 

apocalyptic event, because who can guess

the ways we’ll invent to destroy ourselves— 

implosion or explosion decisions often

changing depending on your present

company. Play—the act of play—contributes

more to societal advancement than any

military thing ever has, but thanks for

the rockets, the Internet, & LGBTQ tolerance 

before much of the rest of society. Yet 

the opposite of military is not poetry, 

& the opposite of play isn’t work. It’s 

depression. And true belonging is not 

about who you are to fit into a particular 

group; it’s about being authentically 

vulnerable & still being accepted by 

that group. Like a limestone monument 

in the bokeh background of the foreground 

DC cherry blossoms, the center of power

rising from a literal swamp, strength

often confused as vulnerability’s 

antonym, the cure for loneliness not

more plotting, but likely more listening. 

Not everything needs to be a coup d’état.

Those Georgia-Post-Society-Guidestones 

also function as a clock, compass, & calendar. 

Sorry. Wrong verb tense. Functioned, as 

last year, the monument was blown apart

by a vandal, granite shards everywhere—

too much to rebuild, in a way Ozymandias 

wouldn’t appreciate. Please stop mistaking 

one idea as an explainer for how the entire

world actually works. Spoiler alert: in 

Planet of the Apes, we’re the real apes, 

& the first step toward societal acceptance

is not external industry. No, instead it’s—

Bob King

Bob is an English Professor at Kent State University at Stark. His poetry collection And & And published in August 2024. And/Or is forthcoming in September 2025. Recent nominations include 3 Pushcart Prizes & 3 BoTN. New work appears in Anti-Heroin-Chic, The Broken Spine, & Allium: A Journal of Poetry & Prose. He lives in Fairview Park, Ohio.